My wife slept with her ex-husband on our matrimonial bed, man tells court

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A barber, Gbenga Akinade, on Friday at an Ibadan Grade C Customary Court, Agodi-Ibadan, secured the dissolution of his six-year-old marriage on grounds of infidelity.

Mr. Akinade told the court that his wife, Busayo, had sex with her former husband on his (Gbenga’s) matrimonial bed, adding that he could no longer tolerate her adulterous way.

He testified that he met the defendant when she was hawking herbal liquor (Agbo-jedi), and that both of them agreed to marry after few months of courtship.

“I did not know that she was a divorcee with two kids until she got pregnant for me. I began to suspect her adulterous ways after she gave birth to our second child.

“She used to go out for two or three days, leaving the children with neighbours,’’ he said.

“Her immoral affairs with her ex-husband came into open recently when I caught her having sex with the man on our matrimonial bed.

“I beat the hell out of her that day but allowed the man to go because unpleasant things might happen if I beat him.

“I decided for divorce in order to forget how I met her with her ex-husband on my bed,’’ he said.

The petitioner prayed the court to allow him to have the custody of his children.

“I promise to take good care of them,’’ he said.

The respondent, in her defence, said that her estranged husband was aware that she had two children before he met her.

She, however, was silent on the allegation that she had sex with her ex-husband on Mr. Akinade’s matrimonial bed.

Busayo added that Mr. Akinade regularly beat her.

She pleaded with the court to peacefully resolve the conflict.

“I am not ready to leave my matrimonial home and my children,’’ she said.

The president of the court, Mukaila Balogun, dissolved the marriage on the ground of lack of love.

“The opinion of the court is that there is no more love between the parties based on the testimonies of the couple,’’ he said.

Mr. Balogun ordered that two of the three children should be in the custody of their father while the last child should be with the mother.

The president of the court ordered the petitioner to be paying N4, 000 monthly to the respondent for the upkeep of the only child with her. (NAN)


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  • George

    Yorubas we slept with daughters and mama they have no shame, this is called babies factories on the streets

    • Deansmart

      Look at this chimp from jungle of congo and a stollen or pproduct of baby factory talking nonsense, so you think infidelities are not going on your enclaves ?silly billy

      • Julius

        lol@Chimp from jungle of Congo . Chei !!!

    • Julius

      Moron, there is a court case going on here with 2 Igbo brother about who fathered a 6 months old baby girl because the older brother who is the husband caught his brother having sex with his wife on their kitchen floor !!. Moron, think before you speak.

  • Impulse400

    I don’t understand some of these embattled wives that appear for divorce cases. Even after being heavily implicated in serious scandals and despite acusing their husbands of physical assault, they always insist on remaining in the marriages.

    Why…? What is the witchcraft? You say the man beats you. The man says he wants to leave you, yet you refuse to let him go. After finally bringing all your dirty undies and linen to wash in public, in court, you want the court to peacefully settle the fact that you slept with another man on your husband’s bed.

    I don’t get it… honestly.

    • Iskacountryman

      it is a harsh world out there…

  • Omooba Adekunle Orafidiya

    Okafor’s Law at play (once poked, can always be re-poked). Lol

    • Impulse400

      Now, how does Okafor’s law apply to Gbenga and Busayo Akinade…?

      • Julius

        Lmaoooooo. Good question !! That’s how dumb asses post unintelligent comments. You beat me to asking that question.It makes no sense at all.

      • Omooba Adekunle Orafidiya


  • emmanuel

    Man wen marry everybody’s wife dey complain. At least na her former husband, what about all others?
    Net to professional prostitutes in order of promiscuity are those woman who sell agbo and paraga.
    As easy woman sweet am na so e sweet others too.

    • Iskacountryman

      agbo and paraga sellers?…i have to look into that…

  • Iskacountryman

    agbo jedi…please send your wife to buhari…he has jedi jedi…

  • Jennie

    A close girlfriends husband suddenly wants a divorce. After the divorce she marries another man who is a laid back kind of a guy who loves her very much. her ex remarries and less than 2 years his wife dies. My girlfriend confides to her new husband that she still has strong feelings for her 1st husband but she loves both men very much. She eventually admits to her second husband that she sometimes has sex with #1. For a year she has been a full wife to both men and begs #2 to allow her to make both men happy and they should become close friends. #2 did not feel threatened by #1 and eventually #1 moved in and bottom line= she has two husbands ! She is almost giddy with happiness with her new situation. Both men seem to be good friends and seem fine with sharing her. One night with #1 and next night with#2 and so on. I would never have thought it would work but all seem fine with this arrangement !! Strange but true !!!!