There are so many things that happen in relationships that some women choose to be blind to. You see your man losing interest but choose to lie to yourself. When you get dumped, you cry and wet your pillows like life depends on it.
Don’t get me wrong, I am a sucker for love too but when you see you are about to get booted out, you should make it less painful for yourself by booting him out first.
These are the signs that will tell you when you about to get dumped.
1. He stops calling as often as before
When he is losing interest, this is one of the first signs. Maybe you guys spoke every day when the “fire was still burning.” But, all of a sudden, it drops to four times a week, then three, then two, then excuses. If this is happening, you are getting booted out little by little. Shine your eye.
2. He would rather spend time with his boys
Am I the only person who gets irritated when the guy you are dating always wants to hang with his “boys?” Meanwhile, on the other hand, more girls than not would prefer to spend quality time with their boyfriends than hang out with the “girls”. When he uses his boys as an excuse to be away from you, he might be losing interest.
3. He always makes excuses
Now, he has stopped calling frequently, and is always spending time with the boys. When he gets confronted, it is one excuse or the other. Once this starts happening, please see your way out of the relationship.
4. He is uninterested in things that matter to you
You should know the difference between when someone is hearing you and when they are listening. If he used to take ten steps to help you move forward, now he takes five steps back, be vigilant!
5. He stops making an effort
All your whining and nagging about him not returning your calls, or always at his boy’s house for him equals “blah blah blah!” He won’t bother to change your mind at this point. When he still loved you, just the fact that you were sad made him sad. But now he’s changed; if you are sad, it’s O.Y. O (on your own).
6. He stops visiting often
Obviously, if all these things mentioned above have reduced, the visits will definitely be affected. You always hung out with him all the time but now, it has become a chore for him to try to see you twice a week. This is also one of the most obvious signs.
7. He is now prone to mood swings
This second, he is happy and next second, he is not. He does not care how you feel anymore; he is irritated and gets upset at the little things you do. He is obviously trying to pass a message across that he is done. Be smart to read the signs.
If you ticked almost five and above out of these seven points, then do him a favour by leaving him. He probably wants to but is obviously a chicken about it so he messes with your head to frustrate you to break up with him. Ladies, be vigilant.